There is no such a thing as 'male' sex or 'female' sex.There is only sex. In other words basically both the male and female are prompted by the same kind of  feelings. The difference is only in the ex-pression. Man is a social product. Society demands some kind of role play from the Man different from that of a Woman.So both are the products of social expectations.The difference in sexual ex-pression, both the so called  sexual and other behavioural ex-pressions, is the difference in the meeting of such social expectations.So 'sex is sexless'.........!